WHEN SEVERE ILLNESS OR DEATH STRIKES A MEMBER OF YOUR FAMILY OR COMMUNITY, DO YOU WANT TO HELP BUT WORRY THAT YOU'LL MAKE MATTERS WORSE? YOUR SUPPORT AND AID CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE -- FAR MORE THAN YOU REALIZE. You'll discover in "What Should I Say, What Can I Do?"- Practical advice on what to do at hospitals and funerals- The right words of comfort to offer- The best ways to offer financial help- Ideas for special gifts that will keep memories of the deceased alive- Different activities to do with your bereaved friend- Staying in touch and showing your love through the years