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发表于2025-04-19
Rejection Proof pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2025
An entertaining and inspiring account of conquering his fear of rejection, offering a completely new perspective on how to turn a no into a yes.
Jia Jiang came to the United States with the dream of being the next Bill Gates. But despite early success in the corporate world, his first attempt to pursue his entrepreneurial dream ended in rejection. Jia was crushed, and spiraled into a period of deep self doubt. But he realized that his fear of rejection was a bigger obstacle than any single rejection would ever be, and he needed to find a way to cope with being told no without letting it destroy him. Thus was born his "100 days of rejection" experiment, during which he willfully sought rejection on a daily basis--from requesting a lesson in sales from a car salesman (no) to asking a flight attendant if he could make an announcement on the loud speaker (yes) to his famous request to get Krispy Kreme doughnuts in the shape of Olympic rings (yes, with a viral video to prove it).
Jia learned that even the most preposterous wish may be granted if you ask in the right way, and shares the secret of successful asking, how to pick targets, and how to tell when an initial no can be converted into something positive. But more important, he learned techniques for steeling himself against rejection and ways to develop his own confidence--a plan that can't be derailed by a single setback. Filled with great stories and valuable insight, Rejection Proof is a fun and thoughtful examination of how to overcome fear and dare to live more boldly.
JIA JIANG is founder of the popular blog and video series 100 Days of Rejection. His story has been covered by dozens of news outlets, including Bloomberg Businessweek, Yahoo News, the Huffington Post, Forbes, Inc.com, MTV, Gawker, the Daily Mail, Fox News, and CBS's The Jeff Probst Show. A native of Beijing, China, Jiang came to the U.S. as a teenager to pursue his dream of becoming an entrepreneur. Jiang holds an MBA from Duke University and a bachelor's degree in computer science from Brigham Young University.
Jiang's rejection journey is quite inspiring and interesting, but I like the last few chapters most, in which he helped his wife find a job in Google with what he learned from dealing with rejections. His wife is admirable as well. What a lovely couple haha~
評分和我這兩年的態度挺像的,想就去要就去做,不要怕拒絕。突然想到我也在Grote Markt 上隨便叫人幫我係過鞋帶,關鍵是彆人還肯,而且教會我一種特彆厲害的係法。迴到書來,有些東西感覺幾句話就能說完的,愣是寫瞭幾頁,但是還是很佩服作者啊。
評分被拒絕所嘗試的點子是蠻有創意的,可是之後的反思很囉嗦,兩句話可以說完的寫成兩頁(所以去看他的ted talk就夠瞭,15min能get到精華瞭),其實總結起來就是多做&不要想太多。被拒絕一次那就真誠地多試幾次;同時你真的很難猜測別人拒絕的原因,所以也不要自己在那糾結瞎想,直接行動起來。另外把很多體驗經歷都強行歸入拒絕這點有些扯。
評分故事本身我很喜歡,對我很有幫助。閱讀時一直有小學生作文的感覺,沒有用的心理獨白太多,不是很有意思的比喻,還有個人覺得沒有想象力的不好笑的幽默。但是還是覺得作者很勇敢很棒
評分故事本身我很喜歡,對我很有幫助。閱讀時一直有小學生作文的感覺,沒有用的心理獨白太多,不是很有意思的比喻,還有個人覺得沒有想象力的不好笑的幽默。但是還是覺得作者很勇敢很棒
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評分前几天看了《被拒100天》这篇TED演讲后,内心被演讲者蒋甲的行动和变化触动,我相信:任何人,只要真正地去执行了被拒100天计划,都会有巨大的收获和改变。对此,我深信不已,况且,作者蒋甲把它干的很有创意、疯狂,有他自己的特色,同时他开通了博客,专门来记录这整个事情。...
評分前几天看了《被拒100天》这篇TED演讲后,内心被演讲者蒋甲的行动和变化触动,我相信:任何人,只要真正地去执行了被拒100天计划,都会有巨大的收获和改变。对此,我深信不已,况且,作者蒋甲把它干的很有创意、疯狂,有他自己的特色,同时他开通了博客,专门来记录这整个事情。...
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Rejection Proof pdf epub mobi txt 電子書 下載 2025